My cousin and her husband are having a baby (yay!), and I'd like to make something for the kid. They don't know the sex, but they aren't too hung up on gender norms. I'd like to make a sweater (I've decided on navy blue and yellow for colors, they just look so cute on little kids), but I'm having trouble finding a pattern that isn't over-the-top either way, feminine or masculine. I feel odd putting a potential boy in lace or a potential girl in snakes when they didn't choose it for themselves (and if they did, all the power to them). Any suggestions?